So is cheating something we have to just accept as women?


๐˜ฟ๐™ค ๐™–๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ข๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™˜๐™๐™š๐™–๐™ฉ? Is that something that we as women just have to deal with? As long as heโ€™s good to us in other areas should we stay? โฃ


โฃLetโ€™s talkโ€ฆ I know the internet is up in arms about this very topic. Wanting, expecting and waiting for a man who doesn’t cheat on you… is not some kind of warped Disney Fantasy.



Hereโ€™s the deal. ๐—ช๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ผ. Audio is better.โฃ



However I did forget to say thisโ€ฆ YOU need to get to a point where you understand character. We can all say โ€œWell I know so many men who cheat and the wife staysโ€โ€ฆ to that I say AND? ๐—ช๐—›๐—”๐—ง ๐——๐—ข๐—˜๐—ฆ ๐—ง๐—›๐—”๐—ง ๐—›๐—”๐—ฉ๐—˜ ๐—ง๐—ข ๐——๐—ข ๐—ช๐—œ๐—ง๐—› ๐—ฌ๐—ข๐—จ. โฃ



โฃCheating repeated is a HUGE RED FLAG of whatโ€™s going on with that man that YOU can not change. Leave the changing of people up to God. โฃ


โฃNow can a good man make a mistake? Sure. But (1) itโ€™s not something YOU have to endure. (2) Whatโ€™s his character like? Will it be worth the staying with him? As my friend Cameo asked. Is it worth it? โฃ



โฃMy cousinโ€™s husband TOLD HER… โ€œIโ€™m having feelings for another woman, a co-worker, I need you to pray for me and I am going to counseling.โ€ This was YEARS ago. They are now 15+ years in and NO cheating happened. Plus the woman was moved to a different location out of no-where. Look at God. โฃ


โฃTHAT IS THE TYPE of man I want. Iโ€™m not naive enough to think that my man wonโ€™t be attracted to other women but I do expect communication. I do expect it to hurt my feelings but what I wonโ€™t do is lash out on him for telling the truth. I can get through honesty but I canโ€™t get through the blatant disrespect for my emotional and physical well being. โฃ



โฃKnow your boundaries before you get into a serious relationship and hold YOURSELF accountable TO YOU. โฃ



๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—œ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ? I help the ambitious millennial single woman discover her worth so that she can stop tying her worth and identity to men and stop being a man pleaser.โฃ



๐—ช๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—บ๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ? women who want better when it comes to men and setting boundaries, knowing your self, understanding your worth and what makes a healthy relationship.โฃ



๐—œ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚? Send me a DM or an email asap.




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