๐ฟ๐ค ๐๐ก๐ก ๐ข๐๐ฃ ๐๐๐๐๐ฉ? Is that something that we as women just have to deal with? As long as heโs good to us in other areas should we stay? โฃ
โฃLetโs talkโฆ I know the internet is up in arms about this very topic. Wanting, expecting and waiting for a man who doesn’t cheat on you… is not some kind of warped Disney Fantasy.
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Hereโs the deal. ๐ช๐ฎ๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ผ. Audio is better.โฃ
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However I did forget to say thisโฆ YOU need to get to a point where you understand character. We can all say โWell I know so many men who cheat and the wife staysโโฆ to that I say AND? ๐ช๐๐๐ง ๐๐ข๐๐ฆ ๐ง๐๐๐ง ๐๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ง๐ข ๐๐ข ๐ช๐๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ. โฃ
โฃCheating repeated is a HUGE RED FLAG of whatโs going on with that man that YOU can not change. Leave the changing of people up to God. โฃ
โฃNow can a good man make a mistake? Sure. But (1) itโs not something YOU have to endure. (2) Whatโs his character like? Will it be worth the staying with him? As my friend Cameo asked. Is it worth it? โฃ
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โฃMy cousinโs husband TOLD HER… โIโm having feelings for another woman, a co-worker, I need you to pray for me and I am going to counseling.โ This was YEARS ago. They are now 15+ years in and NO cheating happened. Plus the woman was moved to a different location out of no-where. Look at God. โฃ
โฃTHAT IS THE TYPE of man I want. Iโm not naive enough to think that my man wonโt be attracted to other women but I do expect communication. I do expect it to hurt my feelings but what I wonโt do is lash out on him for telling the truth. I can get through honesty but I canโt get through the blatant disrespect for my emotional and physical well being. โฃ
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โฃKnow your boundaries before you get into a serious relationship and hold YOURSELF accountable TO YOU. โฃ
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๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ? I help the ambitious millennial single woman discover her worth so that she can stop tying her worth and identity to men and stop being a man pleaser.โฃ
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๐ช๐ต๐ผ ๐บ๐ ๐ฐ๐น๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ? women who want better when it comes to men and setting boundaries, knowing your self, understanding your worth and what makes a healthy relationship.โฃ
๐๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ๐? Send me a DM or an email asap.
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