Being blessed with being a part of ‘Single You’ is my win. I’ve been exhausted beyond exhausted.... During my down time, I took my book and my earbuds and read and listened and just prayed. Without Single You (thank you, thank you Reka) I don’t know if I would be making the progress I’m seeing on my own!
I have been bombarded with texts (from him) about how he’s going to treat me better once we are back together. And I’m literally sitting there with Reka and the Single You community learning. Looking in the mirror repeating to myself “If he was going to do that, he would have already done it.” Thank you Reka, I’m so glad I got to the point to continue my learning.
Thank you so much Reka! It’s crazy how much pressure we put on ourselves & relationships. I know my homeschooled/conservative Christian upbringing really pushed me to find *that relationship* and stick to it- that hardships are normal. It’s so freeing to make healthy choices.
You’ve helped me shift my mindset about how to feel about my family and what they’ve said to me. I’m understanding now that just because someone says something about me does NOT mean it’s true or that I have to believe it. I get to define me.
My friends offer moral support, which is excellent, but they don’t have the experience you do to tell me what I need to do. They don’t give me steps— you do.
So so thankful for the things I’ve been learning in Single You!! As I’m going through the curriculum and the videos — I catch myself being like YESSSS! I WENT THROUGH THAT. & IT MADE ME SUFFER. BECAUSE IT WAS ABUSE.
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What is NLP?
Neuro-Linguistic Programming is one of the most powerful sets of tools available for personal and professional transformation. Drawn from a wide range of disciplines, including cognitive and social psychology, it enables ordinary people to achieve extraordinary results.