You've been working on yourself but it’s like you keep losing it. Old habits are hard to break for you. You know what you want when it comes to a relationship but don't know how to get it or where to start.
If you're ready for 🥂 accountability to guide you in stopping 🛑 that cycle of dysfunction 🙋🏽♀️ then Single You Academy is for you.
✨ SYA ✨ is an (online) intensive 8-week (small group) inner work program focused on growth for the professional single mom in her 30s or 40s who want to stop the cycle of dysfunctional relationships with men (or heck, just that one guy 😭) without the overwhelm of feeling mean for saying no.
Are you ready to discover your worth and learn how to set clear boundaries?
You’re so nice and kind — and you give the benefit of the doubt to men because you see the good in people. But you never get the type of man or relationship you want and you've hit a wall. You've been wanting to work on yourself, but you don't know where to start or how to start.
You feel like you know what you want but you keep choosing the wrong guy.
You're tired and you're sick of that relationship rug being snatched out from under you over and over again.
How many times have you written off guys only to find yourself in the same type of dysfunctional relationship?
I wanted to be loved and I didn't know how.
Single You Academy helped me figure out how to deal with my issues, how to set boundaries and how to raise my standards and not settle for anything less than that. Now I'm happy just raising my son. I needed help and Reka was there. - Sarah, Single You Academy Graduate
In SYA you will learn how to stop tying
your worth and identity to men. You will learn the differences between a healthy relationship vs. unhealthy relationship. The difference between healthy hard vs. abusive.
You will transform from a woman trying to prove her worth to be loved by a man, into a woman who finally knows her worth, who you are, what you want and how to get it.
I was completely lost and Single You Academy has really helped. It’s sad when family and friends don’t understand or support you because you choose to focus on yourself, career, your dreams, desires and your happiness. Thanks for teaching us ladies to value ourselves and to respect ourselves. And that we deserve better! I think relationships don’t work out because we didn’t know a lot of the stuff you teach.
Maybe you've had a therapist before but you're still hung up emotionally. You think you know you're worth but you don't act like it and you'd like to change that behavior.
This program is NOT one where we will build an unhealthy, co-dependent relationship. You will learn how to confidently make decisions as the CEO of your life.
The format of SYA is my ‘secret sauce’ that makes Single You Academy work so well. When we get to speak I’ll give you the exact format and we’ll see if it works for you. Rest assured the format is the right mix of:
I want to protect your time, attention and focus. I don't want you to experience intense overwhelm that stop most of us from doing the work which is why the lessons are delivered once a week and calls a few times a month.
This module is all about breaking down who you are and how to love yourself properly. You'll answer for yourself; why you'd allow a man to treat you the way you've allowed. We'll be breaking down your mental, emotional attachments, and trauma bonds. Simultaneously, you'll also understand the lies you need to stop believing to love yourself and date from this mindset; singleness truly is not a punishment. After this module, you will be able to identify what's missing, so you don't fill it with just anything.
"You're worthy regardless of your relationship status".
Plus, How to Know When to Leave Him. Because how many times have you asked yourself that question? Or how about thinking, 'you can't help who you love.' I have a difference of opinion, and in this module, we will break down love and what it truly means. We will continue to break down how to love yourself because you can't say you know your worth and continue to be treated like crap. You are your behavior. What is your behavior showing you -- about you?
"The best kind of self love, self care and the best way to love yourself is to know yourself. Self awareness is your superpower."
It is in your boundaries where you show yourself that you actually love yourself. In this module, you'll be learning even more about healthy boundaries, how to keep them and how to say no without feeling guilty. You'll gather tools to execute your new life in a world where you know your value and hold men to a higher standard than you ever have before. You'll also hear from men who will cover 'dealing with f-boys and making him wait for sex.'
"Learn to adjust your life to their absence, instead of adjusting your boundaries to accommodate their lack of respect."
Your guidance and homework alone sparked something, and I know now I'm on the correct and right path. The Reading you assign inside of Single You Academy is helping me find out what I've been missing. You've helped me figure out why I couldn't find my happiness and joy. Something was missing, and now I know it's missing within myself, and it's finding that and working on that.
Inside of Single You Academy, I found my worth, and I learned how to love myself and how amazing I am. I now know I don't need a man to tell me or show me that. I'm able to love myself and show me what an amazing queen I am. Reka helped me open my eyes and find what was holding me back.
I tell other women about Single You Academy because I know many women out there who have been in crappy relationships and are sick of being played. We all could use a platform with other women that understands where you're coming from and women to relate to. In SYA I learned about red flags. I learned that it's ok to be single and not to jump into just any relationship.
The women I have coached are breaking generational curses. Single You Academy is the only online course and community for the ambitious millennial single woman who wants better when it comes to the quality of her single life and the quality of the man she dates. I will guide you through a step-by-step implementation program/mindset transformation that will help you: discover your worth so that you can stop tying your worth and identify to men. Which helps you stop the cycle of dysfunctional relationships by learning how to set and keep your boundaries.
My program is a way of life, it's a mind transformation and filled with helpful tips on how to set boundaries, discover who you are and the blueprint to what makes a healthy relationship vs. an unhealthy relationship. SYA is one of a kind and is a place you can go to in order to learn how to love yourself and how 'to be in love'.
My program is a do-with process not a do-to process. Now here is how the 14-day guarantee works: By the end of these 14 days.
If you can show me you've done the work exactly as I've suggested. Journaling, zoom calls, reading, watching, listening and assignments. If you feel like you won't be on the journey to learning something new about you, discovering your worth and stopping the cycle of dysfunctional relationships, let me know and I'll refund your investment.
👍🏽 Sound good?
Ask yourself the following questions. You should give Single You Academy a 14 day risk-free shot if you're motivated by one or all of the following questions:
I put a schedule on my daughter's dad which is huge! 6 years on and off. Back and forth with no boundaries. Single You Academy held me accountable to organize my life towards loving myself, respecting my body and the call God has about honoring it as a temple of the Lord! Told her dad; 'No sex. We can have dinner together 3 days out of the week and he could pick them. Plus no spending the night and you leave by 9:00pm. This is BIG for me Reka! God has sent you to hold my butt accountable to love myself and know my worth! I believe this is a break through. So thank you, thank you! I look forward to moving forward!
I was completely lost and Single You Academy has really helped. It’s sad when family and friends don’t understand or support because you choose to focus on yourself, career, your dreams, desires and your happiness. Thanks for teaching us ladies to value ourselves and to respect ourselves. And that we deserve better!
I think relationships don’t work out because we didn’t know a lot of the stuff you teach.
I'm becoming self-aware. That's my biggest thing, because I just cannot believe all of the light bulbs and things that are making sense and I'm like; 'why hasn't that made sense before now? Before Single You Academy?'
So, just becoming self-aware is probably by far the biggest thing for me.
...Because I have experienced first hand what it's like to be abused by a man, to tie my identity to a man and to feel like there is something wrong with me because I'm single. I understanding how embarrassing this journey can be and the shame around it.
Single You Academy comes from my personal experience when it comes to dating. I was in the revolving door of dysfunctional relationships.
In 2017 my abusive ex of 2 years finally broke up with me. I say finally because I had been waiting to do it. I knew that I needed to do it. I knew that he wasn't the man for me the first week into our relationship, but I thought I was tripping. I pushed red flags aside because I didn't know what red flags were, and I thought when you 'like' someone, you can just make it work.
That whole relationship, I was praying to God because I didn't know how to get out, and at that moment, I wasn't strong enough. I wasn't woman enough to stand up for myself and walk away. I simply didn't know-how.
So whether your story sounds like mine or you haven't dated in a very long time, you just want to learn how to date with intention. You want to discover who you are. I got you - if you got you.
Single You Academy holds all the tools I've been learning since 2017 to discover who I am, my worth, and this is how I stopped tying my identity to men. Now I know that singleness is not a punishment, I'm worthy regardless of my relationship status, and I'm maximizing my single season.
I'm excited to help you along your journey!
Love & Wisdom, Reka
Disclaimer: You understand that I (Reka) am an NLP Certified Life Coach, not a Psychologist, Psychiatrist or Medical Professional of any kind. You understand while coaching can work along side having a therapist very well (and has for many of my clients) -- is not a substitute for counseling, psychotherapy, psychoanalysis, mental health care or substance abuse treatment.
What is NLP? Neuro-Linguistic Programming is one of the most powerful sets of tools available for personal and professional transformation. Drawn from a wide range of disciplines, including cognitive and social psychology, it enables ordinary people to achieve extraordinary results.